A word to the wise

"Watch your thoughts, they become words.

Watch your words, they become actions.

Watch your actions, they become habits.

Watch your habits, they become your character.

Watch your character, it becomes your destiny."

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  If you wouldn't say it to a friend or a co-worker, or even a stranger, you should never ever consider saying it to a loved one. Familialarity is no excuse for verbal or emotional abuse. Just sayin'...